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There’s a new sound in the air—loud, frustrated, and painfully consistent.

It’s the voice of a generation that believes they’re owed everything, yet rarely stop to ask themselves what they owe in return.

There’s a growing noise in our homes, schools, and places of worship. It’s the sound of young people who believe they are victims of parenting.

Many of them are growing up thinking they deserve everything—and must do nothing in return.

They are quick to demand, but slow to reflect. They know their rights, but they don’t want to hear about responsibilities.

During one session with teenagers, a 14-year-old girl said something that stuck with me:

“ _My parents don’t understand. They don’t listen. They are too much! They are like law enforcement officers. I can’t wait to leave their house. They don’t even allow me to visit my friends. Home feels like a prison.”_

These are not just complaints—they are warning signs.

Many parents today are dealing with children who feel trapped, even when all their basic needs are being met: food, clothes, education, and love.

So I calmly asked her a few questions:

- What values do you stand for?
She was silent.

- What have your parents taught you?
She replied slowly, “ To be responsible, to listen, to respect people and authority.”

- And what haven’t you done among the things they’ve taught you?
She looked down and started thinking.

- If I called your parents right now, what would they say about you?
She didn’t answer.

- Do your parents provide your basic needs?
“Yes,” she said quickly.

- If you left home, what would your parents miss about you?
She looked confused. She didn’t have an answer.

That moment hit hard—for her and for me.

It showed me something we all need to face: some of our children don’t know how to be grateful.

They don’t take responsibility for their actions.

And maybe, just maybe, it’s because we haven’t made them face the consequences of their choices.

Let’s be honest: today’s children are starting to judge their parents unfairly.

And it’s not always because the parents are wrong.

Sometimes, it’s because they are copying what they hear from their friends.

Many of them gather with others who feel the same, and together, they paint parents as the enemies.

Even worse, some parents are now afraid of their own children. Yes—afraid. I’ve seen it.

Some children threaten to become violent.

Others use emotional blackmail or simply go quiet, using silence to control the home.

In one session, I witnessed a boy look his mother in the eyes and say:

“That’s why my father left you. That’s why we are suffering.”

Imagine the pain of hearing that—from the same child you carried, fed, and sacrificed for.

But how did we get here?

We stopped correcting.

We allowed everything.

We feared being too strict, so we went too soft.

Some of us started treating our children like visitors—not like sons and daughters being raised with purpose.

Now, some children think they run the house.

They negotiate every rule, talk back when corrected, and refuse to be guided.

But freedom without guidance is dangerous.

It’s time we go back to the basics of parenting.

Our children must know that every right comes with a responsibility.

That respect must go both ways.

That a home is not a hotel, and parents are not servants.

Let’s stop raising children who expect the world to serve them.

Let’s raise children who know how to serve the world.

We must parent with love, but also with strength.

We must stop being afraid to correct, to guide, to discipline.

It’s our job to prepare them for real life—not to entertain them into destruction.

Let’s shift the goal of parenting from raising " feeling good" children to raising grounded, responsible adults.

Let’s reintroduce discipline, values, and hard conversations.

Let’s teach our children that respect is not optional, and authority is not the enemy.

Yes, the world is different. But responsibility will never go out of fashion.

And without it, no generation will survive, let alone lead.

Because if we don’t teach them now, the world will teach them later—and it won’t be kind.

From May 23rd to May 25th, four exceptional Grade 11 learners from Al Falaah College—Mariam Shariff, Amirah Limalia, Ahmed Joosab, and Ammar Essack—stepped up as young changemakers at the Inspire Canada Bootcamp hosted by Islamic Relief KZN and held on our school campus. Their participation in this transformative programme was a testament to their leadership, compassion, and commitment to service.

Throughout the bootcamp, the learners engaged in meaningful workshops, collaborated with Canadian volunteers, and played a vital role in supporting orphans from the sponsorship programme. Their willingness to learn, assist, and embrace the humanitarian spirit showcased their maturity and deep sense of responsibility. This experience empowered them with invaluable insights into global humanitarian work.

A special mention goes to Ammar Essack and Amirah Limalia, who attended all three days of the programme, demonstrating unwavering dedication and enthusiasm. Their consistency ensured they experienced the full scope of the initiative, making a meaningful impact through their contributions and engagement.

As we enter the sacred month of Dhul Hijjah, we reflect on the legacy of our father Ibrahim عليه السلام — a young man who stood firm in faith, challenged falsehood, and submitted fully to Allah, even when it was difficult.

Allah reminds us in the Qur’an:

"Strive for the sake of Allah, as He deserves to be striven for. He has chosen you..."
[Surah Al-Hajj: 78]

But here’s the question I want you to think about:

Do you remember who you were before the world told you who to be?

Before the world labelled you… Allah had already chosen you.

The word used is اجتباكم (ijtibā) — meaning Allah chose you because He saw something special in you. Potential. Purpose. Light.

Just as a coach picks a player with promise, Allah chose you — not for a team, but for His path. The path of Ibrahim. The path of truth.

So this Dhul Hijjah, don’t forget who you are.
You are not just another person. You are the legacy of Ibrahim.
You are the chosen of Allah.

Live like it. Pray like it. Walk like it.

May Allah guide our steps and accept our efforts.

والسلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

We are excited to introduce our Future Innovators Program for Grade 10 students, a groundbreaking initiative that launched on 30 January! This program is designed to equip our learners with critical thinking, problem-solving, and AI-driven skills, preparing them for the future of technology and innovation.

Through engaging lessons and hands-on projects, students will explore artificial intelligence, enhance their coding abilities, and develop computational thinking, all while working with cutting-edge tools used by top technological minds worldwide. This program not only fosters creativity and innovation but also gives students a competitive edge in the ever-evolving digital world.

An Inspiring Day of Unity, Effort, and Sportsmanship at Kings Park Stadium

Alhamdulillah! After many years of hosting separate events, 2025 marked a beautiful milestone as our Foundation Phase and Intermediate Phase boys came together for a joint Athletics Day. Held under the clear, sunny skies at Kings Park Stadium, the day was filled with energy, excitement, and the spirit of togetherness.

With just two weeks of preparation behind them, our learners showed exceptional dedication and team spirit. Coaches, teachers, and learners alike worked tirelessly, and the results were nothing short of amazing. From sprints to novelty races, every child gave their best – not just in running but in cheering, supporting, and showing good sportsmanship.

🏆 Final House Points Tally:
🥇 Khadra (Green) – 681 points
🥈 Safra (Yellow) – 600 points
🥉 Hamra (Red) – 474 points
🎖️ Zarqa (Blue) – 422 points

MashaAllah, Khadra emerged as the overall winner, but every house left the field victorious in spirit and teamwork. The vibrant house colours, the cheers echoing in the stadium, and the laughter of learners all blended into a memorable tapestry of joy and achievement.

The event was not only a celebration of physical strength and stamina but also a reflection of our Islamic values. Learners began the day with a heartfelt du’a, seeking Allah’s blessings for safety, success, and unity.

May Allah continue to bless our learners with strength, humility, and brotherhood. We thank all staff, volunteers, parents, and learners for making this day a tremendous success.

Until next year, keep striving, keep running, and remember – victory lies in effort, not just in the finish line!

While the boys were busy with their sports training, the Intermediate Phase girls enjoyed a fun-filled and purposeful week of their own. The girls programme included energising exercise sessions, creative art activities, making friends, hijab tutorials, and focused time dedicated to perfecting their Salaah postures.

It was heart-warming to see the girls enjoy time in each other’s company, allowing them the freedom to simply be themselves, have fun, and strengthen their bonds in a comfortable, all-girls environment. Their feedback was full of smiles and appreciation.

We are so proud of the girls for the positive spirit, enthusiasm, and sisterhood which they displayed throughout the week. MashaAllah.

The Muslimah Programme held on Tuesday 27 May was a culmination of the week’s training. The sessions on buloogh, hygiene, and modesty were both informative and age-appropriate, helping the girls understand these important topics in a fun and respectful way. The challenging Islamic centered games not only brought joy and laughter but also reinforced Islamic values in a fun and memorable way. The bring-and-share treats encouraged a lovely sense of sisterhood. A truly well-rounded and enjoyable experience, Alhumdulillah.

Jazakallah to parents for being good sports by sending the girls to school for this special programme. May Allah reward you, and our team of educators who put together these fun activities. Aameen

World Read Aloud Day is a special occasion that reminds us of the power of storytelling and the joy that reading aloud brings to both listeners and readers. This year, Al Falaah College was filled with gratitude for the amazing guests and dedicated teachers who visited classrooms, making the 5th of February 2025 an unforgettable day. Parents and colleagues were invited to read aloud to the captivated learners. Guests visited classes and brought stories to life through their engaging narrative expressions.

World Read Aloud Day is celebrated annually to promote the joy of reading and storytelling among learners. It encourages a love for literature, improves listening skills, and enhances comprehension. Reading aloud to learners fosters creativity and imagination as they engage with diverse stories, characters, and themes.

The Read Aloud sessions were a wonderful reminder that reading is not just a solitary activity but a shared experience filled with excitement and learning.

We are excited to announce the reintegration of the “Small Acts of Kindness” initiative (otherwise known as the Sandwich Club) at Al-Falaah College. The Sandwich club ran for many  years, resulting in nearly half a million sandwiches being made and distributed to underprivileged schools and patients waiting in hospital queues. Unfortunately it was then paused in 2020 due to the pandemic, and was thereafter substituted by the Bread Run. Alhamdulillah, it has now been reinstated, so that students can play a part in making a difference in their community. The Sandwich Club: by the students, for the students. 

Hosted by Awqaf SA in association with the Department of Basic Education, Al Azhar High School, Iskill and Thread Waqf to assist learners with their exam preparation.

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📆 Event Details:
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Saturday, 31 May 2025 | 9 AM - 3 PM

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Sunday, 1 June 2025 | 9 AM - 3 PM

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"And remember Allah during the appointed days..." — Surah Al-Baqarah 2:203

As we enter the blessed month of Dhul Hijjah, we are reminded of the immense spiritual value of its first ten days—days that the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ described as the best days in the sight of Allah.

The Prophet ﷺ said:
“There are no days on which righteous deeds are more beloved to Allah than these ten days.”
(Bukhari)

These ten days are a time for reflection, gratitude, and increased devotion. Allah has honoured these days with countless virtues. Among them is the opportunity to engage in fasting and other acts of worship:

The Prophet ﷺ said:
“One fast during these days is equal to the fasting of a whole year, and one night of prayer during them is equal to the prayer of Laylatul Qadr.”
(Tirmidhi)

For those not performing Hajj, fasting on the Day of Arafah (9th Dhul Hijjah) is especially rewarding:

The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Fasting on the Day of Arafah expiates the sins of the past year and the coming year.”
(Muslim)

Even simple actions such as saying “SubhaanAllah,” “Alhamdulillah,” and “Allahu Akbar” hold multiplied rewards during this time.

At Al-Falaah College, we encourage our learners, parents, and staff to make the most of these blessed days by:

  • Increasing acts of worshipdhikr, and du‘a.
  • Performing extra salaah, including Tahajjud and Duha.
  • Encouraging children to participate in charity, even through small gestures.
  • Reflecting on the life of Nabi Ebrahim (AS) and the lessons of submission, sacrifice, and trust in Allah.

As we approach Eid-ul-Adha, let us remember that it is not just a festival of celebration, but one of sacrificespiritual renewal, and deep connection to Allah.

May Allah accept all our deeds during these noble days and grant us His mercy, forgiveness, and blessings. Ameen.

On Wednesday, 5 February, Al Falaah College held its annual Shura Induction Workshop, marking the official appointment of this year’s class representatives. The event, steeped in the values of leadership, responsibility, and service, emphasized the important role that Shura members play in fostering unity and accountability within the school.

This workshop will be followed by our Shura representatives taking a pledge before the full high school assembly.

 

Alhamdulillah, we are pleased to introduce our 2025 PS Prefects.

On Monday, January 27th, the following students were honoured with this prestigious title. We make dua that Allah grants them the wisdom and strength to lead with integrity, just as the Sahabah did. Ameen.

Timol Sameeha – Head Girl

Rahim Muhammed Yusuf – Head Boy

Deedat Zahra – Deputy Head Girl

Rashid Umar – Deputy Head Boy

Khan Yusra

Jean Hanzalah Riaad

Razak Aafiyah

Mahomedy Yusuf Zaheer

Kajee Humairaa

Haffejee Muhammad Ammaar

Paruk Huda

Essa Abu Bakr

Adam Nuhaa

Joosab Rayyaan

Hoosen Husnah Sayed

Amla Ahmed

Khan Layla

Pochee Abdullah Ebrahim

Aboobaker Mariam

Mohamed Ally Husain

Osman Nidaa Faatima

Syed Fuzail

Osman Asmaa

Akoonjee Hamza

Kazi Sanaa

Jadwat Mahir

Soomar Hannah

Matumba Mohammad Anaso

Khan Faatima

Vally Ahmad

Essack Zaynah Naushad

 

Ally Armani

 

Ally Safeeya

 

 

Additionally, we would like to extend our congratulations to the following students who have been appointed as Library Prefects. May Allah grant them the ability to fulfill their responsibilities with dedication and excellence. Ameen.

Sanaa Ahmed Vally Mahomed

Hana Kadodia

Taskeen Loray

Hanna Muthalib

Faatimah Zahra Patel

Inayah Muhammad

Manahil Muhammad

 

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